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How Do We Get Seduced by Anger?

We all know that getting angry really causes US more harm than the other person.  The Dalai Lama says it best, “getting angry is like picking up a piece of hot coal to throw at the other person.”  Ouch!

There’s really not a lot of benefit to us when we get angry.  Even less when you think about where our anger can be directed sometimes.   Like when the computer freezes up, a web page takes too long to load, the traffic light turns red (or worse, isn’t working at all!).  Do you think they care?
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